What the Hell Are You Thinking?
Anyone who spends any time at all on any of my three websites soon discovers that I am a big fan of, and advocate for, masturbation both for singles and the married. For this I make no apology. I believe it is a gift from God to be freely and frequently enjoyed, with liberty, and without guilt. It helps single Christians enjoy a measure of sexual pleasure yet remain chaste. It is an aid to marriage when separated from one’s spouse, or when she is not available for sex. Solo sex is, and always will be, a marvelous work and a wonder.If you have a willing wife
and you are sitting
in front of this screen
going from page to page
while jerking off. . .
what the hell
are you thinking?!
But if you are browsing the web, going from page to page and from image to image, with your hand stroking your hard dick while you have a willing wife wishing you would get off the computer and come to bed, I have to ask you, “What the hell are you thinking?” Not one of the many women you are enjoying can compare to the woman God gave you. Not one stroke of your own hand or handy stroker can match the sensation of your wife’s loving caress or soft warm mouth on your erection. No Fleshlight or Tenga Egg or any other sexual toy can match the feel of your hard cock sliding in and out of your wife’s warm moist vagina. Not one breast or butt or bush pictured on screen, no matter how much more beautiful than your wife’s, can match actually cupping a real breast in your hand, or sucking on a real nipple in your mouth. No virtual vixen, no matter how perfect, will ever match the virtues of a Christian wife, no matter what her physical imperfections. Yes, give masturbation and nudity and erotica their proper place, but again I ask, if you have a willing wife and you have been sitting in front of this screen going from website to website, image to image, while jerking off. . . what the hell are you thinking?!I promise you,
time spent communicating
with and romancing
a wife is time
Yes, I know that it takes a lot of work to make a marriage successful. But just how much time have you spent stroking and looking for just the right image to which to finally climax? I promise you, time spent communicating with and romancing a wife is time well spent. Use solo sex as it should be used, but not as an out, or a lazy alternative to working to make your spousal sex life better. You can have a good climax right here, but if she is available you can have the “full meal deal” with her. You may need to masturbate seven times more than married lovemaking is available to you, but when it is available, please, please, please take full advantage of each and every opportunity. Internet erotica is not going away. A hundred thousand sites will still be here when you cannot have her. Your sex toy will still be ready and waiting to stroke your pleasure hungry dick. But make love to your wife each and every time you can. And romance her in-between those times so that those times become more and more frequent.
Feedback welcomed and appreciated.
Christians, Nudity and Erotica
And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.